Nowadays, most boys chase girls through online chat to improve their understanding, but sometimes the feedback is not so good. For example, sometimes girls reply slowly and have few words. What is the situation? Do you want to continue chatting with girls? Let’s talk about the reasons why girls are slow to reply to messages and have few words.

1. Girls are angry

If a girl used to chat with you and reply to messages very quickly, but recently What you said or did made the girl angry. In this case, it’s not surprising that the girl responds slowly and with few words. The girl wants you to admit your mistakes and apologize to her in this way. It is best to coax her with words and be considerate and caring for her with actions. It is best to combine it with what you did wrong. For example, a girl tells you that your stomach hurts, and you respond by saying drink more hot water. At this time, the girl becomes angry. You immediately prepare the brown sugar water and bring it to the girl, telling her that you know you were wrong. If you don't know where you went wrong, then try to coax her more. If the girl's attitude towards you improves, it means you did something right. If you still can't coax it, then reflect more and ask a few more people to find out where the problem lies.

2. The girl didn’t see the message

Another possibility is that girls are slow to reply to messages and have few words. : You sent her a message before, but she didn't see it at the time. Later she saw the message and felt that it might not be good to reply to you so late, and it would be even worse not to reply, so the girl responded to you briefly. This doesn't mean whether a girl likes you or hates you. It can only mean that she respects you and is quite polite to you. In this case, you can open the chat again after the girl replies to you and see if the girl is still slow to reply to messages. If a girl is very active in chatting with you, it means there is something going on. If a girl is still slow to reply to messages, either she didn't see your message (girls will usually explain this to you), or she has no feelings for you and is impatient to chat with you.

3. Girls are busy

When girls are busy, they will be slow to reply to messages when chatting with you. It’s no surprise that there are so few words. In order to avoid this situation, before boys chat with girls, they might as well ask girls what they are doing and whether they are busy. This way they can also understand the girls' current situation and judge whether they should continue chatting with girls.

4. Girls treat you as a spare tire

For girls, a spare tire is a tasteless waste. It's a pity that if a girl treats you as a backup, she may be passionate about you for a period of time, and then ignore you and talk to you when you think there is hope.The replies are slow and have few words. When you feel hopeless, he will take the initiative to chat with you again... just like this, he will keep you warm and cold.

In summary: Girls are slow to reply to messages and have few words, mainly due to the above situations. When boys find that girls have no feelings for them, they should retreat decisively and don’t be used as a spare tire by girls. There was secret joy there. If the girl didn't see the message because she was busy or delayed, then continue to pursue her.